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I had an AMAZING Weekend...I EXPERIENCED "For Colored Girls", confirmed that My LOVE is too WORTHY to have thrown back in my face! During this wonderful weekend I came to the realization that I am SURROUNDED by so many BEAUTIFUL WOMEN Who Rock!
For everyone girl or woman who knows that she rocks there are just as many who doesn't. WE can't assume that SHE knows if WE'VE NEVER TOLD HER! So to all of the Beautiful & Amazing GIRLS / WOMEN YOU ROCK!
The expression “Making Love Better Begins Within” is absolutely true. So many of us are lost, simply because we don’t know who we are, or better yet, whose we are. It is so easy to lose focus especially when we are hurt or beaten down emotionally, mentally or physically. You have to believe that you were uniquely created for a purpose. That purpose may not be clear or is not yet discovered but I’m here to reassure you that we all have purpose and meaning!
We are so busy living life and taking care of everyone else that we often times neglect ourselves in the process. Who can love you better than you? It is extremely difficult to ask someone else to love you when you don’t love yourself. It’s even harder to expect someone to fulfill your needs when you don’t know what those needs are. We are taught early (some of us) to take care of everyone else. Well what that does is makes us chameleons!
We become everything that everyone else needs us to be and lose ourselves in the process. In order for us to embrace the happiness that we truly deserve, we must look inward and acknowledge what makes us happy as an individual. In order for some of us to look inward and embrace our true selves, -we have to get ugly first. Getting ugly involves taking off the many masks and layers of personalities that we’ve put on to please and satisfy others in the past. It’s like a diamond in a coal mine. Before we can see the true beauty of a diamond, we have to remove the soot and coal. This isn’t always pretty, because facing our true selves and getting to know ourselves can be difficult. Getting naked allows you to see your true beauty, flaws and all.
Contrary to all of the cattiness that we see in the world when it comes to us as women, we need one another to survive. The sooner we realize this the sooner we can become a united group of helpers and healers. Before you can fully connect with someone else, you absolutely must connect with you! No one can love you better than you. When we love ourselves completely, anything else is an added bonus. We are less likely to find comfort in someone else’s husband, an abusive relationship, or an unloving, unfulfilling, unhealthy relationship. We will feel worthy of love, to give and receive love, the way we deserve to be. This is why we must learn our worth. It is never too late to know your woman’s worth.
For everyone girl or woman who knows that she rocks there are just as many who doesn't. WE can't assume that SHE knows if WE'VE NEVER TOLD HER! So to all of the Beautiful & Amazing GIRLS / WOMEN YOU ROCK!
The expression “Making Love Better Begins Within” is absolutely true. So many of us are lost, simply because we don’t know who we are, or better yet, whose we are. It is so easy to lose focus especially when we are hurt or beaten down emotionally, mentally or physically. You have to believe that you were uniquely created for a purpose. That purpose may not be clear or is not yet discovered but I’m here to reassure you that we all have purpose and meaning!
We are so busy living life and taking care of everyone else that we often times neglect ourselves in the process. Who can love you better than you? It is extremely difficult to ask someone else to love you when you don’t love yourself. It’s even harder to expect someone to fulfill your needs when you don’t know what those needs are. We are taught early (some of us) to take care of everyone else. Well what that does is makes us chameleons!
We become everything that everyone else needs us to be and lose ourselves in the process. In order for us to embrace the happiness that we truly deserve, we must look inward and acknowledge what makes us happy as an individual. In order for some of us to look inward and embrace our true selves, -we have to get ugly first. Getting ugly involves taking off the many masks and layers of personalities that we’ve put on to please and satisfy others in the past. It’s like a diamond in a coal mine. Before we can see the true beauty of a diamond, we have to remove the soot and coal. This isn’t always pretty, because facing our true selves and getting to know ourselves can be difficult. Getting naked allows you to see your true beauty, flaws and all.
Contrary to all of the cattiness that we see in the world when it comes to us as women, we need one another to survive. The sooner we realize this the sooner we can become a united group of helpers and healers. Before you can fully connect with someone else, you absolutely must connect with you! No one can love you better than you. When we love ourselves completely, anything else is an added bonus. We are less likely to find comfort in someone else’s husband, an abusive relationship, or an unloving, unfulfilling, unhealthy relationship. We will feel worthy of love, to give and receive love, the way we deserve to be. This is why we must learn our worth. It is never too late to know your woman’s worth.
"Making Love Better Begins Within" This book was written for all who believe in the beauty and power of love. For those who have given up hope that love even exists, and for those who have truly experienced the power of love.
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