What good will it do you to Find, Keep & Understand a Man when you are struggling to Find, Keep & Understand YOU?

Making Love Better Begins Within is the basis for accepting anything good in your life. Learning to love you is the most important piece of an inner work and is the starting point for everything else. Who can love you better than you? By loving you it allows you to grow and receive adding more value to your LOVE BANK.

It is difficult to ask someone else to love you when you don’t fully love yourself. More importantly it’s harder to expect someone to fulfill your needs when you don’t know what those needs are. We are taught early on (Some of us) to take care of everyone else.

Well what that does is makes us chameleons!
We become everything that everyone else needs us to be and lose ourselves in the process.

Here are 5 things that you can do while on your journey to

“LOVING YOU”

1. Make a list of the ten things you like about yourself.

Treat yourself the way you would treat a friend or a lover.

2. Take Time for YOU! Try wrapping your arms around yourself (in private) and tell yourself out loud "I love you." Write yourself a love letter or leave yourself love notes. Treat YOU as special as you want to be treated.

3. Honor You Flaws and all. LOVE you and your imperfect perfections. If there is something that you are not comfortable with…

4. Forgive You Your past is a reflection of who you are on your way to becoming.

5. Date You. Take YOU to all of the places that you’ve ever wanted to go to. Buy yourself a gift, wrap it up and put it away for a month and then "surprise yourself" with it.

The bottom line is if you don't think you're worth loving, who can love you?

You need to love yourself first before you can truly receive and enjoy the love from another.

You may already be in a relationship, or ready for a relationship. Loving yourself puts you in a place where you can more easily express love to another, as well as opening yourself up fully to receive love.

When you truly love yourself, IT SHOWS in all that you do.

People will think and say It’s just something about you!

Independently free
To Live again, Breathe again, Love again
Because She Can
Living and Loving Self
Acknowledging her worth and her wealth

By: Yolanda “Yanni” Brown

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