What Does Your Relationship Resume Say About You??

Every now and again I am asked to do favors for friends, family members and acquaintances.

Usually if I'm able, I don't mind at all. Last nights favor got me to thinking......

I was asked to look over someone's resume and if I could just change one line....

While looking at the resume I thought to myself "this is horrible" The entire resume needs to be done over. Not just one line... (No offense to the person who is the owner of the resume)

But it started me to thinking about relationships as I always do!

Your employement resume is a direct reflection of where you've worked, what you've done and how long you've been on and at the job.

Based on this resume I would NEVER date this person.

That sounds very unfair doesn't it???

Which makes me ask this question. If you were to have a relationship resume, would you be datable? What would your your relationship history reflect about you? Did you get better from relationship to relationship? Are you management material(Husband/Wife material)

Does your relationship resume reflect your goals and aspirations? Do you have any real time or consistency on the job so to speak? Do you go from job to job, leaving when things don't go your way. Making excuses for the "MAN" Who ever the "MAN" is! Have you ever been fired from a job? Can you use any of your previous relationships as a reference?

I just wondered if you ever thought like me and wondered

What does your relationship resume say about you?

I Don't Need a Man......

How often do we hear "I don't need a man?"
So much so that inevitably we begin functioning in our everyday lives as if we really believe this statement.

We make this statement for a number of reasons....

• Because we don't have one at the time (A man)


• We've been conditioned over the years through watching our moms and aunts say and act out the very same thing.


• We've been hurt so it's just easier this way!


• Fear of being hurt, let down or rejected.

My question is this.... What's so wrong with wanting a man? Someone who compliments you? Who is there for you? Supports you?

When does the time come when you want someone that you can share your life with?
Have we become so desensitized that we actually think that WE can do it ALONE?

Men WE Need You! and I ain't afraid to say it!

I for one am OK with wanting a man, needing a man and having someone who cares about me, supports me, compliments me as an individual. Someone that I can grow with, have a future with, have a marriage with.

Let's begin the Conversation, what are your thoughts about this topic?

Do you want a man? Why or Why Not?

Yanni Brown
Kiss & Make Up with Intimate Evenings
http://www.intimateevenings.com/