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In a world where so many marriages seems to end in divorce, couples are finding themselves asking "How do some marriages stay the distance and some fall by the way side?"
Marriage Matters and here are
5 Ways of Making Love Better TwoGether
1. From I to WE
Putting what's best for your marriage first
Although it is a really hard thing to do, to 'put one another first' is vital if the marriage is going to work. That means putting aside any distractions, any insecurities, losing any selfish desires so you can move forward in this life together in a loving and committed relationship. No matter what situation you may find yourselves in. It can be hard to adjust to, but this is exactly what you are saying in your vows when you sign up for a marriage for the long term.
WE are in this TwoGether!
2. LISTENING to each other and UNDERSTANDING one another's needs
From this desire to put one another first, comes the willingness to listen to one another and to understand each other'. Everyone has different needs but in a successful relationship there is a willingness to understand and help meet the other person's needs as an act of LOVE to them. Take time to listen to one another, and see things from their side, understand their history and background, what makes them tick. This is vital so that you know your needs are being met and prevent any dissatisfaction in the relationship.
3. Nipping arguments in the bud
Rest assured that there will always be disagreements in any relationship. In fact, if there isn't any disagreements in a relationship it often means something is wrong. But never let arguments become bigger than they should be. Do all you can to resolve them TwoGether and move on TwoGether.
4. Forgiveness
We all make mistakes from time to time, and when you live TwoGether its really easy get on the wrong side of each other. But if you forgive quickly then minor disagreements don't get a chance to build up. Have a conversation with your partner, let them know how you feel and how what they did affected you. Of course, there are times when it is more difficult to forgive than others, but if any relationship is to survive and be healthy, forgiveness has a major role in growth.
5. Committed to the commitment
Creating a life long partnership
Take your marriage vows seriously and resolve to be twogether and stay twogether for the long haul. Know that there will be good and bad times but you can get through them if you are in your marriage twogether. It just takes mutual commitment and a willingness to work things through for the good of your relationship.
Marriage is not for punks! However applying these 5 characteristics can hopefully turn your relationship into healthy and prosperous one.
1. From I to WE
Putting what's best for your marriage first
Although it is a really hard thing to do, to 'put one another first' is vital if the marriage is going to work. That means putting aside any distractions, any insecurities, losing any selfish desires so you can move forward in this life together in a loving and committed relationship. No matter what situation you may find yourselves in. It can be hard to adjust to, but this is exactly what you are saying in your vows when you sign up for a marriage for the long term.
WE are in this TwoGether!
2. LISTENING to each other and UNDERSTANDING one another's needs
From this desire to put one another first, comes the willingness to listen to one another and to understand each other'. Everyone has different needs but in a successful relationship there is a willingness to understand and help meet the other person's needs as an act of LOVE to them. Take time to listen to one another, and see things from their side, understand their history and background, what makes them tick. This is vital so that you know your needs are being met and prevent any dissatisfaction in the relationship.
3. Nipping arguments in the bud
Rest assured that there will always be disagreements in any relationship. In fact, if there isn't any disagreements in a relationship it often means something is wrong. But never let arguments become bigger than they should be. Do all you can to resolve them TwoGether and move on TwoGether.
4. Forgiveness
We all make mistakes from time to time, and when you live TwoGether its really easy get on the wrong side of each other. But if you forgive quickly then minor disagreements don't get a chance to build up. Have a conversation with your partner, let them know how you feel and how what they did affected you. Of course, there are times when it is more difficult to forgive than others, but if any relationship is to survive and be healthy, forgiveness has a major role in growth.
5. Committed to the commitment
Creating a life long partnership
Take your marriage vows seriously and resolve to be twogether and stay twogether for the long haul. Know that there will be good and bad times but you can get through them if you are in your marriage twogether. It just takes mutual commitment and a willingness to work things through for the good of your relationship.
Marriage is not for punks! However applying these 5 characteristics can hopefully turn your relationship into healthy and prosperous one.
Please feel free to share some of your characteristics with us....
Yanni
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